I'm a 42yr old dating a 20yr old, should I get married or what?

She is an adult and I am not judging at all. Most women our ages are either married or have too much baggage. Most men my age,47, are in the same boat. I am remarried to a wonderful 64 year young man. he is very healthy and athletic for his age. he has that Sean Connery Charm! Actually I think 20 is not a bad age at all. she doesn't have the baggage and you are not old either. Marry her! She will make a wonderful bride! When I met my second and last husband, our kids were already making college plans. Today we have a wonderful empty nest! The spare bedrooms are our caves. he has his and i have mine. So if others here say anything negative, just flip the birdie finger! They are just jealous! Give it some time to enjoy together to make sure that this is a true love match. this is summer, make some plans and wait and get to know each other. look at Catherine Zeta Jones. She is much younger than Micheal Douglas, her husband. She is a very devoted wife. I will do the same for my husband. I will always be there in sickness and in health! So give it a chance! Like that song from ABBA, Take A Chance on Me! Go for happiness!