TTC is making me an emotional wreck, any tips to cope with BFN?

all i can say it that i have been in that boat honey. if it is a bfn then it is what it is. it is hard isn't it? the thing is that it is a new beginning at the end of every cycle. put your energy into the fact that you don't have to worry about or test or anything. as ovulation gets closer then you can start to have more on your mind. :) i have been trying to keep myself busy and not think about it this week. hard!! if it has been a year then you should really be thinking about getting more agressive about your approach to ttc. visit your doctor and be upfront and blunt and tell him or her what it is that you want and some ideas you may have about what to do next. there are lots of things out there to try....even though some are prricy. if he wont help go to someone who will. i thought for sure this was my month. had dreams about it and symptoms that i just don't normally get. just like clockwork though af showed her ugly face! uggg!! on an upnote....if you implanted late you might not have enough hormone in your system to show up yet. you could have just implanted a few days ago and not had the time to make enough hcg yet. being late is a good thing. dont stress about the bfn just yet. some women have to waite until like 19dpo to get a bfp even on a blood test. if you think you might be pregnant then take the guess work out of it. go get a beta hcg done. it is the most accurate and will tell you down to the exact number if you are pregnant or not. if you are still negative then take reurance that you have this month to try as well. get on your doctors to help you be more agressive with your efforts..clomid, ivi ect. lots of baby dust to you honey and keep your head up. a lady i work with tried for over 3 years and just had her first little miricle about 4months ago. it can happen even when it seems hopeless. :)